Feel the same.. I think it's because the 'structure' of it is bit complex than any other part of the body. When I simplify the torso as bean, arms and legs as cylinders or boxes, here's the hands ,because of action, a lot of little boxes facing different way so we have to follow the perspective in a believable way . And the overlappingness, one finger going under another finger..... When I think like that it's a lot. ,❤️But I think the answer is following the gesture first and then put the little forms. When we put the forms it should be accurate ( for fingers boxes are great but I prefer cylinders with a little boxiness , if that makes sense). After that we can put more complexity. The complexity become less complicated if the forms are accurate

These are good studies I love them and yeah I too find them demonic and I would suggest you to try to draw a chubby baby hand it would help you a lot